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Nicki Minaj's Ass Is Not a Joke

October 13, 2015 Maya Perry

ABC Family recently announced the production of a new show based on the life of Nicki Minaj. In light of this news, Ellen DeGeneres decided to share a "sneak peak" of Minaj's show with her studio audience.

In the sketch, a young Nicki Minaj (with an exaggerated backside, seemingly stuffed with padding) interacts with her parents whose butts are so big, that they constantly knock over random items in their home.

The 90-second sketch was void of humor but managed to mock an entire race of people.

If the actors ditched the butt pads and the sketch had involved a short, clever script or a young actor who actually mimicked Minaj's larger-than-life stage persona, the audience's laughter would have been warranted. However, the sketch's one shtick was Nicki Minaj's anatomy. A concept that could have been great instead degraded Minaj and all of the Black women like her.

Some may wonder, "What's the big deal? Nicki Minaj has made a living off of her sex appeal." It's so easy to fall into respectability politics when it comes to women's bodies, especially a Black woman's body. "If she didn't want this, she shouldn't have done that." Her career spans almost a decade, yet the image of Minaj promoting her single Anaconda (released in 2014) has become immortalized. While she has always promoted her sexuality, she has also proven herself to be multi-faceted. Who would have thought that a Black woman could spread eagle in a thong while still promoting feminism? 

As I type this, Minaj has yet to respond but that doesn't matter. Whether or not Nicki is offended by the portrayal or never comments, the sketch is problematic and feeds into a stereotype of Black people as nothing more than their physical features.

"It's not that deep," you say, "It was only a joke." I beg to differ and offer the case of Saartjie Baartman as proof. Saartjie was an African slave who was paraded around Europe in the early 19th century and treated as an attraction for White audiences. Her curves were the subject of speculation and after her death, her body became the property of the Museum of Natural History. As tragic and grotesque as Baartman's story is, it is just one of many that contributed to the fetishsization of black bodies.

For centuries, White people used the anatomy of Black bodies to dehumanize us and rationalize slavery. Today, we are free but our bodies are still under attack.

So no Ellen, this particular clip did not "boost my mood."

In Television, Social Justice, Celebs Tags Nicki Minaj, Ellen DeGeneres, The Ellen Show, Saartjie Baartman
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(Hashtag) Goals

October 11, 2015 Maya Perry
         Is it possible to stay sane when we constantly consume images of beautiful women who make it look so easy?

         Is it possible to stay sane when we constantly consume images of beautiful women who make it look so easy?

Earlier this week an article published on Cosmopolitan.com garnered attention when beauty editor Brooke Shunatona chronicled her week living like Kylie Jenner. I rushed to the comments section because I knew there would be a multitude of women either declaring their anti-Jennerness or celebrating Kylie and her family. (Don't worry, this isn't going to turn into some tired, overly critical think piece about the Jenners and Kardashians being the bane of modern society.) In fact, I'm fascinated by the way this group of women (including Caitlyn) have managed to seamlessly embed themselves into American pop culture.

Regardless of our general feelings about the Jenners and Kardashians, we can't dispute that they have made it their business to be at the forefront of fashion and beauty trends so much so that they have become the standard for millions of impressionable girls and (yes) women. (In stating this, my aim is not to discredit the cultural appropriation that takes place when the Kardashians, Jenners and other so called "trend setters" take features or aspects of other cultures and make them their own. This post is not about that.) They dominate our televisions, magazines and timelines so despite the recent backlash that Cosmo received for declaring them "America's First Family", the concept really isn't that farfetched. More people can recall the latest news involving the Kardashians and Jenners than can relay Obama's latest speech or even his most recent Tweet.

Even if you don't feel personally affected by Kim Kardashian's image, numbers don't lie. What is my data to support these bold statements? Look at the number of Instagram followers these women have then try to say that they have not impacted general beauty standards, including body image. It's no wonder that the Jenner and Kardashian sisters have become the epitome of the hashtag "goals." Even if the images you see under the hashtag aren't of the Jenners or Kardshians, they're pretty damn close; women of all colors with manicured hands that frame faces with pouted painted on lips, long hair, small waists accentuated by fat asses, and it all comes together with a romantic filter.

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It's hard to get on Instagram and scroll through your feed without seeing posts about waist trainers, detox tea or weave bundles. These products promise to cinch your waist, clear your complexion, regrow your edges, fix your credit score in 3 days and fall just short of saving the babies in Africa. The Kardashians and Jenners have been at the forefront of promoting these products and others like them; selling us all dreams that even God couldn't fulfill. I mean, for how many months did Kylie try to conivince us that her fuller lips were the product of great makeup and not injections? And how many of us really wanted to believe that if we just bought x, y and z our insecurities would dissolve? Kylie Jenner is basically the Cady Heron of 2015.

It's fun to mock the people who idolize a rich White 18 year old who has more assets than most of our parents but I won't act as though I'm impenetrable. I don't follow Kim, Kylie, Khloe, Kendall or Kourtney but I'm not above their influences. I've been known to double tap a Jenner/Kardashian pic and yesterday I purchased nail polish the same shade as a color I saw on Kylie. I mean, salute to the girls who can manage to look good 24/7. I'm hashtag blessed if I manage to look presentable three days in a given week. (A growing fear of mine is becoming a meme and with the way I walk out of the house sometimes, I wouldn't be surprised if there's one floating around Reddit right now just waiting to make it to the masses.)

But is it fair to call people naive for aspiring to be like the Jenners? Can we really blame the downfall of society on the Kardashians' superficiality? Imagine all of the images of the Jenners and Kardashians placed onto a Pinterest board. Pinterest boards are fun to create and look at. We can base our own ideas of perfection off of the images we see and be inspired by them without actually aspiring to be them. It only becomes problematic when we can't distinguish perceived perfection from reality.

                                                                 #ThisCouldBeUs  But we don't have the time, energy or resources

                                                            #ThisCouldBeUs But we don't have the time, energy or resources

The perceived physical perfection of the Jenners and Kardashians does not bother me because I can see it for what is… a false promise. Even Kim Kardashian (as beautiful as she is) doesn't look like the glossy images we see of her in Vogue or on Tumblr. Even though we all know that Photoshop exists, it can still be hard not to compare ourselves to the images we see.

That's where self love comes into play. I've come a long way and am finally at a place where I feel comfortable with myself and can appreciate and acknowledge my own beauty. And on days when I'm not feeling my best and feel especially vulnerable, I give myself permission to embark on a social media detox of sorts. That feeling of FOMO is annoying and I rolled my eyes when I discovered what a thighbrow was. When I'm feeling overwhelmed by social media, I may unfollow that Instagram model who seems to always have her shit together or unlike a Facebook page that keeps shoving "fitspiration" down my throat.

I treat news involving the Jenners and Kardashians like much of pop culture; junk food. It's fun to indulge in double stuff Oreos and I could never imagine giving it up entirely, but I'm well adjusted enough to know that it's not enough to sustain me. As much as I'd love to stay curled up in bed all day with my iPhone in hand, I know that there's life beyond social media and that if I'm going to be a healthy, functioning adult I have to have other interests. I write, go to festivals, shop, eat out, hike with my dog and constantly embark on Sunday rejuvenations where I zone out to music and play with my hair. Don't let social media be your everything and I promise you, your life will be exponentially greater. 

In Celebs Tags Jenner, Kardashians, Kim Kardashian, Khloe Kardashian, Kourtney Kardashian, Kendall Jenner, Kylie Jenner, Caitlyn Jenner, pop culture, fomo, #goals, hashtag, thighbrow, body image, Cosmo, First Family
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Beyoncé’s Feminism

September 4, 2015 Maya Perry

Heavy is the head that wears the crown and Queen Bey has had her share of naysayers.  As a proud member of the BeyHive, it pains me to hear people speak negatively about my idol. But what bothers me the most is when people dare to question Beyoncé’s feminism. 

Did she not assert her independence back in '99 and the 2000?

Forget the fact that she stood up for all the fed up single ladies and reminded us that we run the world!

She told us that being pretty hurts and confessed that even pop stars find it hard to live up to beauty standards.

She made a track featuring Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie that included the very definition of feminism and people still won’t give her credit!

But aside from her chart-topping singles, there were plenty of other times Beyoncé used her music to empower women. In honor of B Day, I’m gonna show ya’ll the receipts!

Song: Yes

Lyrics:

No baby, not yet

We can't take that next step

Why you getting so upset, boy you

Act as though I never told you yes before

     You are so ungrateful

Feminist Message: Bey tells her boo that he isn’t entitled to her body. It’s a privelage, not a right! She’ll have sex on her time and on her terms.

Song: Green Light

Lyrics:

Some say I should be trophied

Cause it gets no stronger (Oh oh oh)

Ladies you all know (yea girl you all know)

    This pimp ish gets no older

 

Feminist Message: This grown woman is so over the trophy wife trope! She took some time to live her life but her identity is comprised of more than the "Mrs. Carter" title.

Song: Kitty Kat

Lyrics:

Got diamonds on my neck

Got diamonds on my records

Since 16 I was coming down ridin' Lexus'

How you gon' neglect this?

                                                              You is just a hot mess

Feminist Message: Shoes on her feet? She bought it! Beyoncé is financially independent, dammit! Any man getting with her is getting an upgrade.

Song: Schoolin Life

Lyrics:

You know it costs to be the boss

One day you'll run the town

For now make your life what you decide

Baby, party 'til the fire marshalls shut this sucker down

Feminist Message: In this open letter to women of all ages, she encourages us to do whatever the hell we want!

In Music, Celebs Tags Beyonce, Feminism, Single Ladies, Independent Women, gifs, Tumblr
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and I'm what some would call a "Bad Feminist." I minored in Women, Gender and Sexuality Studies so I'm well versed in the male gaze, rape culture and intersectionality. However, that doesn't mean I won't partake in the rachetrosity that is trap music or revel in the ridiculousness of a Real Housewives marathon.

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